Monday, October 27, 2014

Another Rant About Things

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Today is just one of those days, I really want to chuck it all and go hide somewhere. Or at least I want to chuck all the THINGS that are bugging me.

Lawnmowers that have been fixed three and four times, and still the batteries are dead. I can't mow the lawn without the damn things. I can't clean my stalls without at least one of them to pull the damn manure spreader.

Other objects that have way too much value, and power, over me. Just handling some of them leaves me in tears. I can't open my mouth to talk about them without choking up.

When did a stupid object gain so much power? And what does it mean to have to give up something like that? Not that I want to keep it, it shouldn't mean anything to me. But it has all this power over my emotions.

Stupid THING.

Maybe it's the hoarding gene. (There is one, and I've got it.) Where we put so much stock into things that they take over our lives and families. Is this how objects become haunted? They somehow gather energy from the people around them?

I've written about the haunted motorcycle - an object modified by one person to change her life - and coveted by two others because of what she made it. Cora Cobra had the mad artist Van Man Go paint her Hyabusa to look like an albino python so she could use it in her stripper act. She was choked to death by her albino python after she cracked up the bike. All her energy went into her motorcycle when she died, it was the object that defined her.

But I can't see my mother, or my father being defined by any object. No matter what it was. My father's ghost was seen in my childhood home many, many times, which makes sense because that house defined our family at the time he passed.

This farm, Jordan's Croft, has been shaped by me. My energy and effort has gone into this place to shape it more than any other person. The floors, the barn, the porches, the fencing, and the garden have all been shaped by my will. But when I'm here by myself, all I feel is the frustration and stress that I've been under for the last 5 years.

Today, this is just a place that contains too many 'things' all of which are on my last nerve. I'm going to purge these objects out of my life. Maybe they can take some of this negative energy with them.

1 comment:

K. A. Jordan said...

Oddly enough, the more stuff that leaves this house, the better I feel.

I've sold most of the furniture, not that you'd ever notice the difference. The bedroom suite is gone. The matching couch and loveseat is gone. An amazing amount of old electronics and gadgets is gone, and more is going to go on Saturday.

I've moved in a few (MUCH SMALLER) pieces of furniture. So the rooms aren't as cramped.

I suspect furniture got bigger as houses became McMansions. So the scale of the average livingroom or bedroom suite makes my little house cramped and suffocating.

All I know is that it's much easier to get under and behind furniture now. So I'm finally winning the war against dust bunnies and cobwebs.

Yes, I'm breathing easier.